Sometimes the best way to comfort someone is to hug them tight. You don’t always need words, you know?
Sometimes the best way to comfort someone is to hug them tight. You don’t always need words, you know?
learned that sometimes, you really have to shut up. You have to leave unsaid hurtful words, even if you’re tempted to lash out at someone, even if you got hurt too and you are angry.
More than anything, I think moving on is about forgiving yourself for all the bad decisions you’ve made, and forgiving those who have hurt you, whether or not they’re sorry.
If there is one thing I could take away from my previous relationships, it would be to search for a beautiful heart, not necessarily a beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. There is nothing more beautiful than an intelligent, hard-working, independent, respectful man. It’s hard to say you deserve better when you, ladies, are in control of what you deserve.
The consistency of being inconsistent.
So you put your heart out there. Even though you’ve got yourself broken so many times, it doesn’t make you less of a human not to feel the slightest affection towards another human being. But you know, sometimes it just ends up being ugly. Especially, if you’re really showing the person how much you care about them. They start to change.
Truth is, once people get a hold of what they want, they can easily take you for granted. I never wish to be that kind of person. I was always the “more” type. And when I like you, I really make you feel that I like you. I don’t hide behind the bush or play nonsense mindless games.
I always think that there’s a reason people come in our lives and if you value them so much, you have to make them feel that way. I’m not scared of my emotions, I can control them. The only thing I can’t control is when people start to be inconsistent when I’m trying to be very consistent about how I feel.
At the end of it all, I have no regrets. I pour my heart out for you, and you just gave it back to me, with broken hopes and promises. I did everything.. but I guess it will never be enough. Especially, if I have to replace someone who will always have a bigger hold in your heart.
I’m not some replacement a long the way. I’m not your rebound girl. And I will never ever settle for anything less than what I truly deserve.
When I woke up this morning, I decided to finally delete some people out of my life. I decided to cut all the strings, whatever it is that can connect me to them. I told myself that I have to be selfish, I have to protect myself now. I leave no room for any douche bag to just play with my emotions, or consider me as an option.
I said to myself that even though it hurts to let go, I must be strong about it. I must move the hell on. Because I can’t be stuck in a moment, in a good memory of them, what’s important is now and how they treat me. If they’re only bringing me pain, I don’t see the point of keeping them or hoping that someday they change their mind.
You can only control how you feel towards other people, other people’s action. I am choosing to be numb, to let them go without a fight, because if they really value me as a person, they wouldn’t have taken everything for granted.
Choose to be happy. Choose to be lovely. Don’t let this sadness bring you down. Break free!
(Source: antologiaa)
Just because I accepted your apology doesn’t mean I’d be able to forget that I can’t trust you anymore because of what you did.
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